Femdom-Blog

It was like a saturday triple feature matinee yesterday! I got to watch not one, not two, but three cam stroker boys and was that fun for this mistress!

First up was J, literally up, because his dick was hard from the moment he turned on that cam. He soaked that pretty cock and once slippery he moved effortlessly from hand position to hand position like a cock stroking champ! I got him to the edge several times before he released and he sounded great as he did! Thanks for dropping by naughty one, great show!

Next up was HH and he excitedly showed me his latest toy. He zoomed in on the aneros that he had just purchased and couldn’t wait for insertion! Once inside him he made himself nice and comfy on that couch and we got down to some serious cock stroking business I thought I would up the ante and had him put on the vibrating cock ring for increased intensity. Wow, I do believe that cock grew another inch! For the finale I had HH slip into the fleshlight and hump it good. When he was at the point of no return I had him slide it off and he delivered a cumshot clear up to his chest. Way to go baby!

The last (certainly not least) cam show of the day came from a very patient ricardo. I had done several long calls back to back and he waited several hours to “perform” for his mistress. He did not dissapoint, let me tell you! Ricardo has one of the biggest mushroom heads I have ever seen! Because of the size of his head we actually came up with a new stroke that I’ll call “the plunger.” I am going to keep this stroke “top secret” in the blog because it needs to be realized! Super show, from a super cock! I believe it was well worth the wait!

Maybe things are changing but I cannot see roles reversed in this photo any time really soon – not in mainstream advertising, anyway. And I’m not sure how I feel about that. On one hand, images like this, but with submissive women, could be less sexist, and more sexy, than the general male media sexual consumption of all women. But, thinking about it, it could also be revolting. The real problem with such a movement would be that, even though it might originate within the alternative sexuality community, it would give liscence to some pretty awful patriacrchal men to indulge in ‘female slave’ advertising that would not be coming from a good place at all. So perhaps maledom advertising had best stay hidden for the time being. PS – any media knowsters out there who have examples of overt maledom media, I’d like to see them. Are they sexy?

The Mistress Anna settled down on a sofa and slowly smoking a cigarette allows to the slave to lick the fine legs. The slave removes shoes from legs of the Mistress, sucks round each finger of a magnificent foot, with ecstasy licks her heels. Having taken pleasure, the Mistress orders to the slave to lay down on a floor and tramples down his body with her charming legs. She tramples down a slave breast and his head, puts his fingers of the legs to the slave’s mouth forcing to lick them. And then sits down again on a sofa, ordering to him to put on the Mistress. The slave accurately dresses shoes on her legs, and the Mistress orders to lick her legs and a shoe.

Sexy blonde Dark Mistress tramples her slave wearing a hot army outfit. She tramples his whole body brutally with her sharp high heels, tramples his throat, his face and his balls until she commands him to knee down and starts to bust his balls. She kicks into his groin over and over again!

I remember the very first time someone said ‘CBT’ to me and I said ‘what’s that?’. I’ve now been domming for over six years and have come a long way since then.

To begin with I was a bit nervous as I was accustomed to men being highly protective about their bits, but I soon realized that men asking for CBT were willing and even eager to have their precious possessions subjected to various procedures.

CBT can be either mild or intense depending on the slave. Some just like to be secured in cock straps or cock and ball harnesses of various sorts or subjected to pleasant levels of electric stimulation. Others like it pretty severe.

One of the first toys I used was a parachute harness. I secured the slave with his legs apart, arms above his head and gripped the top of his ball sack with thumb and index finger, this forced the balls down out of the way so I could clip the parachute harness into place.

I never use parachute harnesses with really sharp bits of metal in them (in fact I think they should be banned from all working dungeons – because they can’t be sterilized) but I do like ones with studs.

Next come the weights, its fun to add a bit more at a time, stopping occasionally to give the dangling weights a kick. The slave gasps and his erect cock leaps ever higher in response.
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“Femdom empowers women in the most efficient way.

In order to defend this claim, I shall first describe the main tenets of Femdom, which are relevant to the issue of feminism. This shall suffice to support my claim that Femdom empowers women. However, only doing so will leave out the last part of the claim I want to defend, namely, that Femdom empowers women in the most efficient way. Thus, the second part of my post will consist in such a defense.

Femdom can take radical forms – in the sense that some see humiliation as a requirement and as the main means to humble the necessarily phallocratic male ego. I do not believe that this is the most feminist component of Femdom at all: for one, BDSM certainly includes the practice of male humiliation – however, in doing so, the top – in this case, the female – may actually satisfies the desire of the male sub. Therefore, even in a situation of domination by a female over a male, the male’s desires can still be the ones being satisfied.

So, what is it about Femdom that contributes to the cause of feminism?

I shall spare you the means and focus on the results:

- all the traditional chores that have contributed to the Western phallocentric definition of the female gender are the male sub’s responsibility;
- focus is put on the female orgasm whereas the male sub has given up the control of his orgasm to his Mistress – this constitutes a major rewrite of the male script of the bedroom routine; he does not fall asleep until She does and instead of snoring, he pets Her, cuddles with Her, and spoons Her.
- the major possible benefit from Femdom is that Women do not have to choose anymore between work and family, career and motherhood, but can combine them most happily if they want to. More »

Steve Evans tapped his fingers nervously on the bar counter. Hed had two martinis in the hour hed been waiting, and was seriously contemplating another. Anything to relieve the feeling of nausea steadily growing in his stomach. She was late; maybe she wouldnt show up at all. How would he feel then Relieved Maybe a little. Disappointed Definitely.

He decided to settle for a bottle of beer instead, and returning to his seat in a corner of the bar, sat and mused over the circumstances that had brought him to this downtown dump of a place. Was it really only six months ago since hed decided to explore his submissive side He hadnt known where to start at first, but of course the Internet answers all. Chat rooms led him to sex sites; they in turn led him ever deeper into the world of the specialised BDSM sites. The stories posted by various authors, intrigued him the most. Everything he needed to know was written in them. His heart would beat faster with excitement when he read some of the tales of torment. Oh how he wanted to be that slave, anxious to please his Mistress, begging to be allowed cum. His cock would grow rock hard at the thought of it. More »